Written to me in response to my reply to the profile of a younger woman was, “You must be dreaming to think that I would be interested in a man of your age and disposition.” I did not reply back to her because her mind was set. However, my thoughts were as follows: Dreams such as those which I hold are constructs in the process of materialization. For me to insure complete materialization, my dream must be pursued relentlessly with passion and knowledge, not mere belief, that I have the metaphysical capacity to cause that which I see in my mind to materialized into true reality.

As sentient beings we are capable of many times more than the day to day struggle of life.

We are the architects of all that happens in our lives and we can control our achievements in our pursuits of love and happiness.

We have the awesome power to manifest our specific dreams into reality if we so choose to do so or to allow circumstance to produce random realities if we do not chose to manifest the reality we want. Most people do not realize that we are the architects of our own ‘life constructs’ and when our lives are not as we want it to be, it is because we have not put effort into the constructs of our lives and have left those constructs to the resulting consequences of causes and effects.

I have read the profiles of many women who have written that they have basically given up on their search for the man they were hoping to be discovered them or for the man of whom they had hoped to meet and engage in the relationship of their dreams and desires.

My dear woman (and I am addressing all of the women who have written ‘they are giving up’) you should not abandon the pursuit of your dreams just because among the men you have so yet met, you have not met the man you are seeking.

I will, without a hint of doubt discover the woman of my search and we will engage ourselves in the relationship of our dreams. To that end I am resolute because I know that I am the architect who has built the dream that will manifest into my reality.

You might be asking, if the above is true then in pursuit of the woman of my search and in my choosing to respond to the profile of the woman who inspired this writing, what happened in reference in the statement that dreams are constructs in the process of materialization? As sentient beings, creators and architects of our specific realities, why did I receive her rejecting reply to my response to her profile?

The woman, herself, is not the specifics of the dream that I have constructed, no of the dream which I know will eventually manifest into reality. She was simply one of the millions of potentials that exist by way of her embracement of the lifestyle to which the woman I am seeking subscribes.

I did not choose to respond to her profile based upon her photos of which there were none. I responded to her profile based upon what she had written in her profile; words and statements which were aligned with the nature of the woman represented in the construct of the dreams that I am in the process of manifesting into reality.

The secret to causing dreams to manifest into reality is visioning and concentrating on the substance of the dream rather than the container in which the manifested reality will be held.

In my search, my woman has no shape or form. She can be tall or she can be short. She can be skinny or she can be overweight. She can be young or she can be old. She can be radiantly beautiful or of average looks. She can be of any race and ethnicity.

The physical construct of any woman might serve to attract my attention to her if I was to see and meet her in a pubic setting, but my search for her is on the Internet for a woman of a specific mentality embracing a specific lifestyle. What I can see of her with my eyes is not the inner being which I want to know. My eyes are not capable of seeing her spirit; the most integral aspect of her being and her substance which will deliver me the satisfaction in the relationship of my dreams which are in the process of manifestation.

For all of us searching, we must have and maintain patience, tenacity and perseverance in knowing our dreams are indeed in the process of manifestation and they will become a physical reality resulting into the love and happiness in the relationships we are all seeking.